In 14 days, go from ‘constant ghosting and confusion’ to actually understanding what Japanese women are thinking—so you can plan dates, text, and kokuhaku the Japanese way.
The Date Spot Guide shows you WHERE to take her. This course reveals WHY Japanese women act the way they do—from kokuhaku to reading the air to the unspoken rules that determine success.
Module 1: The 5 Types of Japanese Women is being uploaded now!
WHO IT'S FOR
Perfect for foreign guys who:
- Are tired of ghosting + mixed signals
- Want to kokuhaku the right way, not get ghosted
- Prefer a practical, culture-first system over pickup tricks
- Are dating in Japan or dating Japanese women abroad
What You Get as a Founding Member
Join the first cohort and get lifetime access to the complete 14-day system at founding member pricing, plus exclusive bonuses available only during pre-sale, such as direct access to B.
- Weekly Live Q&A with B (During Launch Month)
Bring your real situations; get specific feedback. - Special Access to GoGen's Japanese Team
A GoGen Japanese Team member will periodically join the live Q&A with B. - 14-Day Structured Course
Understand Japanese dating culture through lesson-packed modules with multiple videos covering kokuhaku, communication, and cultural psychology. - 5 Types of Japanese Women
Learn to screen for compatibility from the first conversation—save time and heartbreak. - Decode Indirect Communication
Understand honne/tatemae, "reading the air," and what she's REALLY saying. - App, Texting & Phone Strategies
From first message to setting up dates—what works in Japan vs. the West. - Date Planning & Execution
Beyond the guide: how to read her signals, handle pressure, and avoid being labeled "charai." - Founders‑Only Community
Private Kajabi group for ongoing questions between calls; B is active weekly. - The Kokuhaku System Explained
When and how to make it official—the Japanese way. (Most foreigners get this wrong.) - Lifetime access + future updates
You keep v1.0 and everything we add. - Founding Member Pricing: $48
Lock in $48 now. Price increases to $97 after launch. - 30-Day Money Back Guarantee
If after the first module you don’t feel like, ‘This alone was worth $48,’ email us within 30 days of the first module full release for a full refund. No forms, no homework, no guilt.
What You'll Learn
14 days of structured lessons that take you from cultural confusion to confident dating
Cultural Foundation
- The 5 Types of Japanese Women: East vs. West and What You Must Know
- The biographic sketch: her upbringing, work life, and mindset
- Understanding kokuhaku and why it matters
Reading the Signals
- Honne vs. tatemae (what she says vs. what she means)
- "Reading the air" and indirect communication
- Body language and facial expressions (they're different)
Strategic Dating
- Planning dates that win the girl without breaking the bank
- Communication strategies (apps, texting, phone calls)
- Avoiding the "charai" (player) label
Advanced Execution
- Kokuhaku timing and delivery; de-ghosting
- Post-kokuhaku dynamics (nothing changes and everything changes)
- Long-term relationship navigation
Who This Is For
This course is designed for specific types of students—make sure you're a good fit
Perfect if you:
- Want to date Japanese women but feel lost in the culture
- Keep getting ghosted and don't know why
- Have matches but can't convert to dates
- Go on dates that go nowhere
- Want to avoid wasting time and money on trial-and-error
- Are moving to Japan or already there
- Are interested in dating Japanese women in your home country or outside Japan
NOT for:
- People expecting a magic solution without effort
- Those not willing to learn about Japanese culture
- Men looking for pickup artist tricks (this is about genuine connection)
Created By Someone Who Gets It
Not just theory—real experience navigating Japanese dating culture
B, Founder of GoGen Languages
Linguist • Certified Translator • Culture Expert
I've been where you are—confused by mixed signals, wondering why dates weren't leading anywhere, making cultural mistakes I didn't even know I was making.
As a graduate-trained linguist who speaks German, Portuguese, Spanish, and Japanese, I've spent my life studying how language and culture shape human connection. I've lived all over the world—from California to Brazil to Germany to Spain to Japan—and dated across all these cultures.
After 5+ years of dating in Japan (including relationships with Japanese women across all types—from Pure Domestics to Westernized Crossovers), I learned what actually works. Now I teach how to navigate Japanese dating culture without the trial-and-error pain I went through.
Testimonials
What People Say About GoGen's Content & Coaching
"Without B and GoGen's advice, I would have never met my Japanese fiancée! I had failed date after failed date... ghosting, 1st, 2nd, and even 3rd dates that led to nowhere. Even after kokuhaku, failures that went nowhere! Getting access to B and GoGen's knowledge and experience changed everything for me."
"This was incredible! I've learned more from GoGen about Japanese dating culture than I learned from months of dating! Failure has turned to success! I wish I had learned about GoGen sooner."
"The structure and design of this course is simply amazing. It makes it easy to internalize the Japanese and the cultural insights that go with it. Totally worth it!"
These reviews reflect experiences with GoGen's free content (podcast, YouTube) and private consultations. The new course is in pre‑sale; individual results vary.
Frequently Asked Questions
When do modules release?
First modules drop December 9th, 2025. You'll get 3-4 modules per week over 4 weeks:
- Week 1 (Dec 9): Day 1 – The 5 Types of Japanese Women - Lesson 1-2
- Week 2 (Dec 16): Day 1 – The 5 Types of Japanese Women - Lessons 3-4
- Week 3 (Dec 23): Day 1 – The 5 Types of Japanese Women - Lessons 5-6
- Week 4 (Dec 30): Day 2 – Biographical Sketch: Understanding Her - Lessons 1-2
- Week 5 (Jan 7): Day 2 – Biographical Sketch: Understanding Her - Lessons 3-4
- Week 6 (Jan 14): Day 2 – Biographical Sketch: Understanding Her - Lessons 5-6
- Week 7 (Jan 21): Day 3 – Kokuhaku & Charai: Core Dating Concepts
- Week 8 (Jan 29): Day 4 – Konkatsu: The Marriage Hunting Mindset
- Week 9 (Feb 6): Day 5 – Japanese Communication: Part 1 - Indirect Style
- Week 10 (Feb 13): Day 6 – Japanese Communication: Part 2 - Body Language
- Week 11 (Feb 20): Day 7 – Japanese Communication: Part 3 - Texting
- Week 12 (Jan 29): Day 8 – Date Planning: Part 1 - Mindset & Invitation
- Week 13 (Feb 6): Day 9 – Date Planning: Part 2 - Venue & Occasion
- Week 14 (Feb 13): Day 10 – Date Planning: Part 3 - Venues & Dangers
- Week 15 (Feb 20): Day 11 – Dating Apps & Social Media: Part 1
- Week 16 (Feb 27): Day 12 – Dating Apps & Social Media: Part 2
- Week 17 (Mar 5): Day 13 - De-ghosting & Kokuhaku Navigation
- Week 18 (Mar 12): Day 14 - Post-kokuhaku: Don't Make This Mistake
All modules stay unlocked—learn at your own pace after initial release.
How do the Weekly Live Q&A sessions work?
During December, founding members get 4 weekly live Q&A sessions with B (and occasional appearances by our Japanese team). Bring your real dating situations, app profiles, or message screenshots for personalized feedback.
Can't make it live? No problem—you'll have access to the community where you can ask questions anytime, and B is active weekly responding to posts.
What Japanese level do I need?
None! This course is designed for complete beginners to Japanese. We focus 75% on culture and 25% on language—you'll learn the essential dating phrases and cultural concepts regardless of your starting point.
Already speak some Japanese? Even better. You'll learn the nuanced, contextual usage that textbooks never teach.
Will this work if I'm not in Japan yet?
Absolutely. This course works for:
- Men planning to move to Japan (get a head start)
- Men currently in Japan
- Men dating Japanese women in their home country
- Men interested in Japanese women anywhere in the world
The cultural principles apply universally—you'll just adapt the context.
What's the refund policy?
30-day money-back guarantee from the first module release (December 9th). If the course isn't for you, request a refund within 14 days—no questions asked.
Note: Refund window starts Dec 9, not from purchase date.
Why is the founding member price so low?
We're rewarding early believers. At $48, you're getting lifetime access to a course that will be $97 after launch. You also get exclusive founding member bonuses like live Q&As during launch month that regular students won't receive.
This is a true pre-sale—we're still finalizing content based on founding member feedback.
How is this different from free YouTube content?
Our free content (podcast, YouTube) gives you pieces of the puzzle. This course gives you the complete system in the right order, with:
- 14 structured modules (not scattered tips)
- Specific strategies for each dating stage
- Live feedback on your actual situations
- Community of men going through the same journey
What if I have questions between modules?
You'll have access to the founding members-only Kajabi community where B is active weekly. Post questions, share experiences, and get feedback from both B and other students going through the process.
Is this only for dating apps or real-life too?
Both! While we cover app-specific strategies (Pairs, Tapple, Bumble), the core cultural principles apply everywhere—meeting women through friends, at bars, language exchanges, work, wherever.
Dating apps are just the easiest, most systematic way to meet people in the dating/relationship context.
Will my access to the course end?
You receive lifetime access. Watch modules as many times as you want. You'll also get all future updates we make to the course at no additional cost. Version 1.0 becomes 2.0 becomes 3.0—you get it all.
What if I'm shy/introverted?
Perfect. Japanese dating culture is actually built for introverts. The structured, rule-based approach (kokuhaku system, formalized dates) means you don't need to rely on social instinct as much as in Western dating.
Many of our most successful students describe themselves as shy—Japan rewards planning and thoughtfulness over spontaneous charm.
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