Master Japanese Dating Culture: Stop Guessing, Reduce Ghosting, Get the Girl You Want
 The Date Spot Guide shows you WHERE to take her. This course reveals WHY Japanese women act the way they do—from kokuhaku to reading the air to the unspoken rules that determine success.
What You Get as a Founding Member
Join the first cohort and get lifetime access to the complete 14-day system at founding member pricing, plus exclusive bonuses available only during pre-sale, such as direct access to B.
- Weekly Live Q&A with B (During Launch Month)
Bring your real situations; get specific feedback. - Special Access to GoGen's Japanese Team
A GoGen Japanese Team member will periodically join the live Q&A with B. - 14-Day Structured Course
Understand Japanese dating culture through lesson-packed modules with multiple videos covering kokuhaku, communication, and cultural psychology. - 5 Types of Japanese Women
Learn to screen for compatibility from the first conversation—save time and heartbreak. - Decode Indirect Communication
Understand honne/tatemae, "reading the air," and what she's REALLY saying. - App, Texting & Phone Strategies
From first message to setting up dates—what works in Japan vs. the West. - Date Planning & Execution
Beyond the guide: how to read her signals, handle pressure, and avoid being labeled "charai." - Founders‑Only Community
Private Kajabi group for ongoing questions between calls; B is active weekly. - The Kokuhaku System Explained
When and how to make it official—the Japanese way. (Most foreigners get this wrong.) - Lifetime access + future updates
You keep v1.0 and everything we add. - Founding Member Pricing: $48
Lock in $48 now. Price increases to $97 after launch. - 7-Day Money Back Guarantee
If it isn’t for you, request a refund within 7 days of first module release.
What You'll Learn
14 days of structured lessons that take you from cultural confusion to confident dating
Cultural Foundation
- Understanding kokuhaku and why it matters
- The biographic sketch: her upbringing, work life, and mindset
- Why Japanese dating is different from the West
Reading the Signals
- Honne vs. tatemae (what she says vs. what she means)
- "Reading the air" and indirect communication
- Body language and facial expressions (they're different)
Strategic Dating
- 5 types of Japanese women and how to screen
- Communication strategies (apps, texting, phone calls)
- Avoiding the "charai" (player) label
Advanced Execution
- Kokuhaku timing and delivery
- Post-kokuhaku dynamics (nothing changes and everything changes)
- Long-term relationship navigation
Who This Is For
This course is designed for specific types of students—make sure you're a good fit
Perfect if you:
- Want to date Japanese women but feel lost in the culture
- Keep getting ghosted and don't know why
- Have matches but can't convert to dates
- Go on dates that go nowhere
- Want to avoid wasting time and money on trial-and-error
- Are moving to Japan or already there
- Are are interested in dating Japanese women in your home country or outside Japan
NOT for:
- People expecting a magic solution without effort
- Those not willing to learn about Japanese culture
- Men looking for pickup artist tricks (this is about genuine connection)
Created By Someone Who Gets It
Not just theory—real experience navigating Japanese dating culture
B, Founder of GoGen Languages
Linguist • Certified Translator • Culture Expert
I've been where you are—confused by mixed signals, wondering why dates weren't leading anywhere, making cultural mistakes I didn't even know I was making.
As a graduate-trained linguist who speaks German, Portuguese, Spanish, and Japanese, I've spent my life studying how language and culture shape human connection. I've lived all over the world—from California to Brazil to Germany to Spain to Japan—and dated across all these cultures.
After 5+ years of dating in Japan (including relationships with Japanese women across all types—from Pure Domestics to Westernized Crossovers), I learned what actually works. Now I teach how to navigate Japanese dating culture without the trial-and-error pain I went through.
Join the first 100 founding members and get lifetime access to this system for just $48
Testimonials
What People Say About GoGen’s Content & Coaching
“Without B and GoGen's advice, I would have never met my Japanese fiancée! I had failed date after failed date... ghosting, 1st, 2nd, and even 3rd dates that led to nowhere. Even after kokuhaku, failures that went nowhere! Getting access to B and GoGen's knowledge and experience changed everything for me.”
“This was incredible! I’ve learned more from GoGen about Japanese dating culture than I learned from months of dating! Failure has turned to success! I wish I had learned about GoGen sooner.”
“The structure and design of this course is simply amazing. It makes it easy to internalize the Japanese and the cultural insights that go with it. Totally worth it!”
These reviews reflect experiences with GoGen’s free content (podcast, YouTube) and private consultations. The new course is in pre‑sale; individual results vary.