FREE (75-page) Date Spot & Date Planning Guide

Dating Japanese women is confusing. Get the cultural playbook foreign guys never get taught.

From the host of the GoGen Podcast (5 million+ IG views, 5+ years dating in Japan).

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75‑page Date Spot & Date Planning Guide

Reduce ghosting and impress your date by understanding these "signals" most guys miss.

Date-appropriate cafe/restaurant tiers
Reservation scripts + what to say
How to avoid the "lazy/unserious" signal

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How to plan the ideal 1st, 2nd, and 3rd dates for a Japanese woman and avoid common mistakes made by foreign men
How to structure brief, low-investment first dates that screen for real interest while avoiding the 6-hour, ¥10,000 disasters that end in ghosting
The multi-tier café discrimination system - how Japanese women instantly judge you by whether you picked the cute Instagrammable spot, the posh lounge, or just... Starbucks
Why understanding Japanese dating culture matters - The hidden rules that determine success or failure (covered in-depth in our full course)

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