Get Both Perspectives: Western Coach + Japanese Woman's Insight
Stop guessing what she's thinking. Get personalized coaching from Bryan PLUS a Japanese woman from our team who provides the female cultural perspective that makes all the difference.
B + Japanese team member providing dual-perspective coaching
Limited to 3 new clients per month ⢠Investment: $2,500
You've Learned the System. But Dating is Personal.
You understand kokuhaku. You know the types of women. You can plan a date. But when it comes to YOUR specific situation, questions keep coming up:
"She takes 3 days to replyâis she interested or just being Japanese?"
"Should I use keigo or tameguchi with HER specifically?"
"Is she a Pure Domestic who'll expect perfection, or a Crossover who wants Western directness?"
"The date felt offâwhat Japanese etiquette did I violate?"
"My profile isn't getting matchesâwhat am I doing wrong?"
"Should I kokuhaku now or wait? The timing feels unclear."
The course gives you the map. Coaching gets you to the destination.
How 1-on-1 Coaching Works
Personalized guidance for your specific situation, dates, and conversations
Before We Start
- Profile audit (dating apps or social media)
- Goal-setting session: What does success look like?
- Personalized strategy based on your situation
During Our 10 Weeks Together
- Weekly 1-hour Zoom sessions (strategy, debrief, planning)
- Unlimited message review between sessions
- Real-time date prep & debrief (before and after every date)
- Cultural troubleshooting: "What went wrong? What next?"
By the End
- Confidence navigating Japanese dating culture
- Ability to "read the air" and screen for compatibility
- Clear strategy for finding and keeping the right partner
What's Included
The only dating coaching that gives you both perspectives
Dual-Perspective Coaching
Sessions with Bryan (Western perspective + linguistics expertise) PLUS a Japanese woman from our team joins 3-4 critical sessions to provide female perspective and cultural insights you won't get anywhere else. She's been on the other side of these datesâshe knows what Japanese women are actually thinking.
10 Ă 1-Hour Private Sessions
Weekly Zoom calls for strategy, date debrief, and personalized coaching tailored to your specific situation
Profile Optimization
Complete dating profile review and rewrite (Pairs, Tapple, Bumble, etc.) plus photo selection guidanceâreviewed by both Bryan and Japanese team member for maximum appeal
Strategic Message Review
Core: Up to 3 priority message reviews per week between sessions. VIP: Up to 5 per week + 1 emergency same-day review per month. Send screenshots of your most important conversationsâwe'll tell you what she REALLY means and suggest culturally-appropriate responses. Reviewed daily with 24-hour response time.
Real-Time Date Support
Pre-date strategy sessions and post-date debriefs to analyze what worked and what to improve next time
Kokuhaku Guidance
Perfect timing and execution for making it officialâwith female perspective on exactly how to do it. This is the most critical moment in Japanese dating.
When Japanese Team Member Joins:
- Session 2: Profile reviewâfemale perspective on what attracts Japanese women
- Session 5: Mid-point checkâinterpreting her behavior and communication
- Session 7: Pre-kokuhaku strategyâfemale insight on timing and delivery
- Session 10: Relationship maintenanceâcultural expectations for official couples
Investment
$2,500
10 sessions = $250/session ⢠Includes Japanese team member perspective
Compare: Language tutors $30-50/hr ⢠Therapy $150-300/hr ⢠Generic dating coach $200-400/session (without cultural expertise or female perspective)
The Application Process
I only work with students who are serious and a good fit
Apply Below
Fill out the short application (5 minutes). Tell me about your situation, goals, and why coaching is the right step.
Review (48 Hours)
I review every application personally. If you're a good fit, I'll reach out to schedule a strategy call.
Strategy Call (30 Min)
We hop on Zoom to discuss your goals, assess fit, and answer any questions you have about coaching.
Enroll & Start
If we both agree it's a good fit, you enroll and we schedule your first session for the following week.
Choose Your Package
Both packages include Japanese team member perspective
Core Package
- 10 Ă 1-hour sessions (weekly)
- Japanese team member joins 3-4 key sessions
- Unlimited text/message review
- Profile optimization (dual perspective)
- Real-time date strategy & debrief
- Cultural troubleshooting
VIP Package
- Everything in Core, plus:
- 20 sessions (2Ă per week for 10 weeks)
- Japanese team member joins 8 sessions
- Emergency Zoom access for urgent situations
- Done-for-you profile writing & optimization
- Personalized date spot research in your area
- Accelerated 10-week timeline
Why Dual Perspective Matters
Generic Dating Coach
- Male Western perspective only
- Guessing what women think
- No cultural expertise
- $200-400/session
Our Team Coaching
- Western + Japanese female perspective
- Direct insight: "Here's what she's thinking"
- Deep cultural + linguistic expertise
- $250/session (includes team)
Payment Plans Available
Payment plans available for Core package. VIP requires 50% upfront.
Is Coaching Right For You?
Perfect if you:
- Completed (or are completing) the 14-Day Dating in Japan course
- Are serious about finding a great Japanese partner
- Want expert guidance to skip months of trial-and-error
- Are ready to invest in yourself ($2,000)
- Will implement feedback and attend weekly sessions
- Are open to honest feedback about your approach
NOT for:
- People who haven't taken the course (start there first)
- Those expecting magic without effort
- Men not ready to invest $2,000 in their dating life
- People looking for pickup artist tricks
- Those who won't implement feedback or attend sessions
Honest Assessment: Coaching accelerates results for committed students. If you're not ready to invest time, money, and effort into transforming your dating life, the course alone might be better for now.
Meet Your Coaching Team
Cross-cultural expertise + native Japanese perspective = results you won't find anywhere else
Bryan + Japanese team member: The dual perspective that makes our coaching unique
B, Founder & Lead Coach
Linguist ⢠Certified Translator ⢠Cross-Cultural Dating Expert
I've been exactly where you areâconfused by mixed signals, wondering why dates weren't leading anywhere, making cultural mistakes I didn't even know I was making.
As a graduate-trained linguist who speaks German, Portuguese, Spanish, and Japanese, I've spent my life studying how language and culture shape human connection. I've lived on 4 continentsâfrom California to Brazil to Germany to Spain to Japanâand dated across all these cultures.
After 5+ years of dating in Japan (including relationships with Japanese women across all typesâfrom Pure Domestics to Westernized Crossovers), I learned what actually works. I created the 14-Day Dating in Japan course to share that knowledge. Now, through 1-on-1 coaching, I help men apply these principles to their specific situationsâskipping the years of trial-and-error I went through.
+ Japanese Team Member Perspective
What makes our coaching unique: A Japanese woman from our team joins 3-4 critical sessions to provide the female perspective.
She's been on the other side of these dates. She knows what Japanese women are actually thinking when they say "ăŞăă§ăăăă" or take 3 days to reply. She'll give you honest feedback that no male coachâforeign or Japaneseâcan provide.
This dual-perspective approach is what separates our coaching from every other dating program out there. You're not guessing what women thinkâyou're getting direct insight from a Japanese woman who understands both the culture and your situation.
Ready to work with us? Only 3 coaching spots available per month. Apply below to see if you're a good fit.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why is having a Japanese woman's perspective important?
Dating advice from a man alone misses half the picture. Our Japanese team member provides:
- Female perspective on your profile, messages, and behavior
- Native cultural insight that even fluent foreigners miss
- Direct translation of what "ăŞăă§ăăăă" (and other phrases) actually means
- Honest feedback on how you're coming across to Japanese women
She joins 3-4 critical sessions (profile review, pre-kokuhaku strategy, etc.) where female perspective makes the biggest difference. This is the only coaching program that offers this.
I haven't finished the course yet. Can I still apply?
Yes, but you'll need to review the course material before our first session. We can provide you with a written version of the course, given it is still in the pre-sale phase. The course teaches the foundations; coaching applies them to your specific situation.
I'm not in Japan yet. Does coaching still work?
Absolutely. Many clients start coaching 2-3 months before moving to Japan. Other clients are interested in dating Japanese women in their home countries or other countries outside of Japan. If you're coming to Japan, we'll focus on profile setup, cultural prep, and starting conversations so you hit the ground running when you arrive. If you are interested in Japanese women abroad, the same cultural prep will be conducted, but we'll deep-dive into the nuances of Japanese culture in the context of foreign countries (and how that specifically affects the Japanese women you are interested in).
What if I'm terrible at Japanese?
No problem. I'll help you navigate whether to focus on Japanese-speaking women or Westernized women, and tailor the strategy accordingly. Many successful students speak minimal Japanese. Understanding the cultural nuances is far more important than commanding the language. Many of our clients have successfully dated Japanese women who speak little-to-no English, even when they speak little-to-no Japaneseâit's amazing actually.
Can I work with just B without the Japanese team member?
Yes. Email us at [email protected] for coaching sessions and packages with B only.
Can you guarantee I'll find a girlfriend?
No. But I can guarantee you'll understand Japanese dating culture deeply, avoid common mistakes that waste months, and dramatically improve your chances if you implement what we discuss. Most clients see significant improvement within the first month.
What if I need more than 10 sessions?
We can extend on a per-session basis ($300/session with team member, $250 solo) or you can re-enroll for another 10-session package at a discounted rate ($2,200).
How do sessions work? (Schedule, platform, etc.)
Weekly 1-hour Zoom calls at a consistent time that works for all of us. We'll schedule all 10 sessions upfront. Between sessions, you can send messages/screenshots anytime via email and we'll respond within 24 hours.
How does message review work?
Core Package: Send up to 3 priority conversations per week. We'll analyze them and respond within 24 hours with detailed guidance.
VIP Package: Up to 5 per week, plus you get 1 emergency same-day review per month for urgent situations (like "I have a date tonight and need help NOW").
We batch-review during our office hours (Mon-Fri, JST) to provide thoughtful, detailed responsesânot rushed real-time answers. Focus on your most important/confusing interactions for maximum value.
What if I can't make a session?
Life happens. We can reschedule with 24-hour notice. No-shows (without notice) forfeit that session.
Do you offer refunds?
Due to the personalized nature of coaching, all sales are final. However, if we determine during the strategy call that coaching isn't a good fit, you won't be charged.
Which sessions does the Japanese team member join?
Core Package (3-4 sessions):
- Session 2: Profile review (female perspective on what works)
- Session 5: Mid-point check (interpreting her behavior)
- Session 7: Pre-kokuhaku strategy (crucial female insight)
- Session 10: Relationship maintenance (if applicable)
VIP Package (8 sessions): She joins sessions 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, and 10 for maximum female perspective throughout your journey.
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"The Japanese team member's perspective was game-changing. She explained things that reinforced and complemented B's adviceâlike why my date kept saying 'ăăă§ăă' but seemed distant. Turns out I was violating unspoken rules I didn't even know existed."
Questions? Email me at [email protected]
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